Like you I would forget to take the pill and then have to double up. Hated That! I also broke out with terrible acne because of it, I'm 38 and much to old for all of that mess. A few months ago I switched to the ring and just love it. No having to remember to take anything, no acne, no weight gain. Just great! I do however, have to remember to take it out and replace it. Since I do not plan on having kids, ever, I am talking to my doctor about permanent method that is non-invasive. It is called "Eversure" they insert small titanium "springs" into the fallopian tubes and in about three months the body builds up scar tissue around the springs that blocks the tubes. It is an in office procedure and from what I have read a great alternative to traditional methods.

Good luck and talk to your doc!