I hear you about the sex thing. When I had my first son (i wanted a girl) the lady in the room next to me already had all the stuff for her unborn child. This was back before the sonogram days, so she didn't know what she was having. She just KNEW she was going to have a girl. She had pink stuff all over the room, I was revolted. So my first kid was a boy, (and an amazingly easy baby) so I had another one... who was supposed to be a girl. wrong again.
CRY because it's the wrong sex? How minor a thing is that? my babies both had 10 fingers and 10 toes, and grew up to be great guys. I was glad I had two boys, and if DH hadn't had a vasectomy while i was still pg with #2, i would have been happy to have 3 boys. heck, i wouldn't know what to do with a girl!

I agree, you have to accept what life gives you.
how's it go, accept the things you cannot change, change the things you can, have the wisdom to know the difference?

ps my older son is going to a halloween party saturday dressed as a girl with a girl who is dressed like a boy for his date. He is even SHAVING HIS BEARD for this event!
(this really wierds me out, he thinks it's funny)