I see this problem with a lot of my clients...i get the "i know what i SHOULD be doing - i just don't do it!"
I too was like that for a long time. Its all a matter of recognizing the self talk when it happens (many of us don't).
We talk ourselves out of our workout ("i'll go tomorrow", "what's the point?" etc etc).
when we start talking ourselves OUT of something you must ask yourself
1) will this decision affect my health or wellbeing?
2) Will i be proud of this decision, or will it be something i try and hide?
3) will this decision prevent me from reaching my goal?
you also have to think the following way (or start to) - HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO REACH YOUR GOAL?
My brother in law has skin problems and wants to get into this study that is testing some kind of cream to heal it. He was assessed and was told to lose some weight. One of his problems is red wine. He drinks a lot of it. and he eats a lot of fatty foods. He was complaining to me one day, about the size of servings and how he NEEDS a bigger class of wine (his wife serves him up 1/2 a cup instead of his usually 2-3). I tell him this - how important is it to him to make it into the study and potentially get help for his skin problem. Or is it more important to drink wine.
Some food for thought (pardon the pun)![]()
Smile
Hannah



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