
Originally Posted by
Sheesh
When we first started riding together, I felt badly that I was a lot slower than he was, so I always felt like I "ruined" his ride. I don't like to do things that I'm not good at, so I almost just gave up. But, we eventually came to a solution where he rides ahead of me, and we meet at certain points along the way (it helps that we always ride along the lakeshore path) just so he could make sure I was doing okay. This strategy allowed me to ride at my own pace and not worry about what he was thinking, while also challenging me to get better so that we could ride together again.