Thanks for all the answers! I don't worry about my road shorts (maybe I should, ahem) but he never wears shorts of any kind so he's more self-conscious about it. I never knew why until recently -- one of his friends in high school was a football player with huge muscled thighs, and my husband had what he considered to be "skinny" legs and so was self-conscious. He actually has beautifully shaped legs - but old baggage is hard to discard, sometimes!
It's so cool this morning I think I'll wear my jeans to Starbucks.
Oh yeah, re: the gold bike scheme. Great idea! Well, except for the "people steal bikes" part!
“Hey, clearly failure doesn’t deter me!”
For me, it's not the leg part of the bike shorts that I am selfconscious about, it's the way the chamois part lays in the buttocks area. If my butt in the shorts just looked like, my butt in the shorts - well I would be greatful for the spandex holding everything in a defined shape.
BUT (no pun intended) it's the diaper effect of the chamois in my most comfy shorts that I hate.
Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.
John Lennon, "Beautiful Boy"
I think I'm too dorky to care about the diaper butt. Because first I had to get over the idea of wearing spandex without a big loose t-shirt to cover up my sins, and I started feeling all biker-chick tough. Dudes, this is what we wear; deal with it.
And I thought the diaper butt was just part of the look.
By the time I started reading about people who hated that look and were looking for different styles of chamois, I'd already taken on that "deal with it" mantle and I don't even think about that part. (Of course, I'm also not looking at that part, if ya know what I mean.)
“Hey, clearly failure doesn’t deter me!”