I have to throw in my two cents here... portion sizes are all kinds out out of whack everywhere. Ever been to the gas station convenience mart and found a bag of chips that's actually ONE serving? Most of them are more like three or four servings. People think a liter of Coke is OK to drink with their lunches. Super-Sizing is happening everywhere, not just at McD's or at the local greasy spoon.

I've been to expensive French restaraunts and been shocked by the "tiny" portion sizes - and then realized that it was just one portion when I'm used to seeing two or three portions served.

Now I admit that I usually am not sated by what you ladies are talking about as a healthy meal. I'm also fat. BUT... I've been a boxer (and therefore a bodybuilder) and played field hockey at state level and miss being able to bike commute a 7 mile round trip, and I'm several inches taller than a lot of you. I consider myself to be very out of shape these days but I'm probably about 100 times healthier than the "average" American woman. My blood pressure and cholesterol and sugar levels are fine.

As somebody who has done some very, very serious training I have a pretty good grip on my metabolism and I assume that each one of you do, too. That guy at the grocer was totally out of line!!

I've known some women who were too thin. And they were as unhappy and self-aware (and self-conscious) of it as I am of being overweight. Anybody who isn't your doctor or yourself should sod right off if they say you're too thin. They're just jealous.