Lise, I have a Speed She on my cyclocross bike and I hate the thing for longer rides. It isn't long enough for a road position and I keep scooting around on it; it would probably be fine if I was OK with only sitting up straight and toodling along at a sightseeing pace. However, I adore my WTB Laser Stealth V or whatever the thing is now called for mountain biking. It might even be a good road saddle. I know women who like the Rocket V for road riding.

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