Hmm, okay I just got a diva cup to try and well maybe i'm just challenged in some way :P I couldn't get it in at all and finally gave up trying to get it in and got a pad instead. I folded it up into that U shape they tell you to and then put it in.. it goes in about an inch or so and then after it it just starts hurting. Any suggestions on what I can try to do to get it in?