Ofcourse there is more going on here, you ladies are perceptive. I'm not happy at all in my situation. Wish I could have the type of relationships some of you have. I'm working towards a solution for myself. With kids it is hard, however they are older. I guess I was just hoping he would support the one thing I love to do, cycle.

Sure I resented helping him out, he never put his life on hold for me. Moreover, when I needed assistance due to medical reasons he called my sisters, my mother and had our girls pitch in.

Cycling is my release, my therapist was overjoyed when I started cycling. It keeps me sane. I feel like a million dollars when I get home, even if it is a short ride.

For now the snowglobes can be a nestegg.

By the way, last night I went to the lbs and ordered myself a new bike!