bounceswoosh wrote: "Sorry about the SINK demotion =/"

Thanks, but no, I don't consider it a demotion in rank. Breaking up is hard to do (everybody sing!) but I've come to feel it's better than being in a relationship that was not meeting my most basic needs and with one who was not willing to do any of the work...takes two to do that and so I'm clippin' in and a'rollin' on.

Of all the things we do, relationships are the hardest and maybe the most important.