Ya know, you can almost ALWAYS attribute the problem to some deep-seated, internal fear, or concern, or attitude toward something.

In the case of the husband who got the globe instead of the bike, maybe he is subconsciously sending a message that he doesn't want you out on a bike all the time and not with him. Some of you will think, "aaaaawww, isn't that sweet?" But those of us who live with this know it has nothing to do with sweet! It's manipulative and controlling! UUUUUUUUHHHGGGG!

Maybe he's like every member of MY immediate family and thinks bike riding is stupid and doesn't want any of their friends to see you dressed in spandex!

Who knows? Next "gift-giving" event, instead of saying, "I'd like money or buy me______" take him to the bike shop a week before and PICK OUT WHAT YOU WANT AND BUY IT! Then say, "...thanks for my Christmas present, HUUUUUUUUUN!" Or just buy it, bring it home and put a bow on it. Then when everyone asks what's that for? Say, "it's the birthday present you guys bought for me........you're so sweet and thoughtful!"