Obsessive?

[lauraelmore1033]

I think it is a positive thing that your son has the interior resources to identify something that concerns him and that he felt secure enough to articulate it to you, rather than "acting out". I think that is an indication that mom is doing really well in the mothering department.

[Cassandra_Cain]

here-here! to what Lisa and Spokewench both mentioned.

You really do need your alone time and your own interests. Not just for fun but just for your sanity and to stay healthy as well as upbeat. You should be excited about things, why not? having a family should not preclude you from that!

I bet if you talk about it with your loved ones that an understanding can be reached.