Small hands
Sorry, I've been out of the loop here for a long time. Just a reassurance, many bike shops apparently treat all women as though we're freaks of nature -- we're not of course, we're just not configured like men (don't go there). My bike shop seemed to take it as a challenge and to learn a lot on my challenges; they now carry and suggest more options for smaller women. As long as your bike guys, and yes, they're usually guys, are civilized and sentient keep working with them. If they're not, try to find another shop.
K
No matter how much the world changes, cats will never ride bicycles.