If you measure your sit bones (outside edge to outside edge) and give that info and your list of saddles and how they (didn't) work for you

Okay, I have to ask because I'm still not sure, how do I know where my sit bones are? Sometimes I feel pressure on what I think might be the sit bones, but other times where I feel the pressure from the seat is more like where my leg bone sockets go into my hips. I guess I have never been too sure if I know where the sit bones really are---and I haven't wanted to ask any of the male sales people at the bike shops to show me