These are my favorite gloves:
http://www.teamestrogen.com/products.asp?pID=12604
I went to a store that had LOTS of gloves, including many for women. I tried them all on and was amazed at how many were not comfortable at all. These however, felt miles more comfy than all the rest, and so I just had to get them. I have a pretty small woman's hand, and the women's Medium size fit me best.