Inferiority complex during group rides

[Cindyloo]

Thanks for the great advice! I think attitude is (almost) everything when it comes to group rides. I think it was a combination of things. Mostly going in thinking I was going to be smokin' and then getting spanked.

It will be a great help to just focus on my own performance and goals instead of worrying about who is passing me on what and then determining halfway through that I suck and turn whiney . Thanks also bloomer for suggesting riding with a group slightly less than my ablility or at least equal (that might be more possible ). It's all good though! I am not giving up on group rides just yet but if it turns out not to be for me there are lots of other niches that I can fit into. Thanks again for the encouragement and advice!

[sandy45]

I have to say that I really enjoy group rides. But I am also a Mountian Biker....not a Roadie....so maybe that has something to do with it. I started riding alittle less than a year ago, but activily started riding for the right reasons within the month. That was after a 3-4 month down time. I still love group rides. And I have to admit that I am the lowest level of rider in the group. I am not in shape and to top it off I have asthma. The group we ride with is mainly guys. And I actually feel more confortable in the group than with the DH alone. Becuase other people encourage and let me know that I am doing good. So maybe it is the people in the group, but I do know that most guys dont expect you to be the best and they will be the first ones to lift you up when you are down on the ride.

I was trying to be encouarging....maybe just get to know the people you ride with, so you dont even think about being "all that" around them it all just comes natural.

Sandy

[Brandy]

I've felt too intimidated to go into an established group, so I've been riding with people from here at Team Estrogen and people from Bike Forums, and they're great! It's not a group that has been together for a long time, so it's easy to feel welcome...abilities are all over the map and most important...we're out there to have fun, be social butterflies and EAT! Our post-ride meals are very important to us. For me, that has been an easier transition into group riding than trying to jump into an established group.

[yogabear]

I can so relate. It wasn't until this year that I became brave enough to do group rides. I picked the beginner/recovery ride and usually do that one. I also do one that is one level above that. I like to go with someone I know and then, I feel much better and less nervous. I have gotten to know some cool people on the rides and so it feels more comfy for me now.

Don't give up though...It does get better