Inferiority complex during group rides

[Melstar]

Yea i know what you mean. The group which i rode with had a very serious feel going on about them. On my very first ride with them, I was feeling a little intimidated. Because of this, i started stressing out about everything and everyone. In fact, I didn't even finish the distance that time (the undersized bike i borrowed didn't help as well, it was for a 5`6 person)

So yea, you're definitely not the only one around! I'll say, don't pressure yourself too much. People in the group may pressure you, but there's nothing you can do about them. Just don't put added stress on yourself by worrying too much about what they are thinking and just do your thing. But if group riding turns out to not be your cup of tea, riding with a partner can be just as rewarding .

Personally i prefer to ride with a partner, but i feel safer riding in a huge group when it comes to taking on the roads. And its because of this, thats why i'm still sticking to group rides.

FYI, i was talking to some of the guys in the group, and they do not admit to any pressure on newbies on their side of the fence... Its all fun and games to them...but i sense that is just hogwash.