A giant leap for fixedgeargirl

[chickwhorips]

go for what shows off your assets.

you know i just remembered the first date me and my now BF we suppose to go on. i just happen to meet him online, just a fluke. we started chatting and told him i wanted to go hiking but had no one to go with. so we set it up to go hike together. when we got together to go, we wound up talking and never did go for that hike, well not till about 2 years later when i moved up here because i knew he was 'the one'.

[fixedgeargirl]

I went for the *assets* shorts , figuring the original plan was to meet for a ride and would have seen the *assets* in that setting anyway. Hey, I pedal hard to get these assets!

We met, we walked, we talked. Nice guy. No sparks. A little snobby on some issues, but I expected that of a former pro racer . Says he'll call me after he gets his bike put back together (had to warranty a carbon fiber crank) and we can ride. I'm not holding my breath. Said he "likes kids, as long as they're someone else's kids", meaning he doesn't want any of his own. Good to know.

So fixedgeargirl's got her groove back ! I had put off looking, thinking "I'm not ready." I answered this guy's ad on a whim, figuring I might at least get a good ride out of the deal, and realized that, d@mn it, I am ready!

[Triskeliongirl]

Hey- thanks for letting us 'old been married to the same guy forever gals' live vicariously through you. Its great that you took this step. and that it helped you realize you are ready to date again. I am curious to know how cycling singles works out. If I were single it would be my first instinct, but I have no clue how to date in this century. -e