Did you get a real bike fit on a road bike, so that you can be sure you're test-riding the right size? That makes all the difference. I did make this switch last year from a hybrid to a road bike (Bianchi Eros Donna), and got a fit from a cyclist/physical therapist so knew exactly what I needed in terms of size. I love and am utterly comfortable on the Eros Donna, for that reason. I encourage you to try this approach--it totally worked for me.