Quote Originally Posted by talray
Hi! I can't tell you how relieved I am to find a woman specific bike forum.

Also, I've only tried the standard drop-bars a few times, but I've found them intimidating. I don't feel as in control, and have trouble reaching the brakes from the hoods. I'm thinking about a flat bar road bike like the Kona PhD. Any thoughts? I'm also going to try riding one of the more upright road bikes like the Specialized Sequoia.
Chances are that if you get flat bars on a road bike, that you will "outgrow" them before too long. At road biking speeds, aerodynamics are quite important and there will be times, such as downhills and headwinds, where having drops is a big advantage. The drop bars can be set anywhere from level with your saddle to a few to several inches below. The very low position is primarily for racers. Most of us who only ride for enjoyment find a comfortable bar position in the 0 to 2 inch below range. Your comfort really depends on having a bike that fits well.