I'll say it again. All of you are awesome. RunningMommy I can't even begin to thank you!!! I would go with purple black and white. I asked my nephew who is 5 to tell me all the things he remembered about Jenny and one of the things we talked about was that he remembers her as always wearing purple. I hope this is okay. My family is hurting like we have never imagined possible, but this is helping. I will forever be indebted to all of you for that. This is going to be great. My sister deserves every bit of this and more. She was as close to perfect as it gets. We called her The Golden One a little tongue in cheek, but in reality everyone knew we all meant it. She lived her life for others and spent her time trying to glorify God through her thoughts and actions. She was the best of all of us, and her physical absence is devastating. Stay safe