WOW! Thank you so much for posting. I have a mixture of goosebumps and tears right now. Tears for what has happened to Jenny, And please accept my sincere condolences to you and your family. Please pass on my well wishes. Even though your sister was a total stranger to me, I felt like I knew her for some reason. I certainly identified with her.
The goosebumps are that from what you posted it sounds like I had a hand guiding me in my idea of a shirt with purple writing. Perhaps she is up there looking down on us.
And again, I'm very glad that you posted because I was very concerned about overstepping my bounds and offending the family. The last thing I would want to do - or anyone here- is do something that the family- or Jenny would not support. But we all want to honor her.

That being said, I am going to email you so that I can get a better idea of what the family and Jenny would truely want us to do in her honor.

Welcome to the forum, and though I don't know if you cycle or not, we are a very tight knit group of ladies here, who support one another. Cyclist or not we welcome you with open arms, and at this time- heavy hearts as we are also mourning your sister.
Take care, and please pass our love on to your family.
Denise