Seriously, some mornings my 46 year old face looks pretty worn... big old allergy shadows, funky wrinkles... I just am not inclined to resort to makeup, much less invading my essentially functional body with anytyhing like botox!
... what works is to SMILE. The wrinkles arrange themselves differently, the shadows and bulges get shoved around, and ... well, I'm smiling. I've worked on it - there are lots of different kinds of smiles using lots of different kinds of muscles. I *think* the one that's almost my default face now isn't too muich like a Cheshire cat - when I"m in front of the mirror it's more a slight upward tug from the corners, trying to leave my teeth covered ('cause I can do a pretty good mule, too ).
Of course, it also helps that I have not bought into the idea that age is a bad thing.
YOu've got a good self - wear it PROUDLY!!!
I'm feeling a little sympathy for the man... Men like problems they can do something about and don't see the value in even bringing up things just to *talk* about 'em :-) Heavens, if a hammer won't fix it, forget it!