So sorry. The holidays are extra tough when a family member passes. Tomorrow marks 1 years since my nephew was taken off of life support after a previously undetected brain stem tumor put him in a coma for weeks. My family has really lost any positive association with Thanksgiving and Christmas, unfortunately. I hope your family will be able to enjoy the holiday on some level and find some comfort and time to rest. It's so physically exhausting dealing with the holidays and loss of a loved one at the same time. (((shootingstar)))