Sadly that seems to be a trend in this country for group rides while there was a time when I could ride all day long, my highest average was only 13. I never was able to find a regular riding partner who would stick around at that speed. Can't say that I was ever insulted, thankfully. Now there WAS a few who would ride with me occasionally and I always appreciated that. I just got used to riding solo :-)

Nothing wrong with your e-bike! It helps you have fun & get out there. That is what matters!