Hi Bike Writer,
I just finished a more advanced level bike physical therapy course and we definitely talked a lot about this type of issue and how to fix it. It's pretty complex. The best thing to do would be to find a PT in your area that does bike fitting. I believe that the instructor of the course I took, has a list of PTs that have completed his classes. In my class this last weekend, there were PTs from all over the country.
Here's a list of PTs in your state that have completed the bronze level (level 1) of his course. One of these folks might be able to help you out.
I hope you get things worked out.