This is a very interesting thread for me. I experienced a great deal of upheaval in my life over the past year (almost exactly a year now!) and during that time my desire to ride has become pretty much nonexistent. I decided not to stress over it -- heh, I had enough to stress over, I didn't need to add to it! -- and I figured my desire to ride might return eventually. I'm not going to push myself to start riding again until I'm good & ready. In the meantime, I'm hiking a lot, and enjoying the beautiful hiking trails near me that I hardly knew existed until now. 
I hope things look up for you, kajero.
2009 Lynskey R230 Houseblend - Brooks Team Pro
2007 Rivendell Bleriot - Rivet Pearl