I sort of understand Shootingstar's feelings. I've mentioned this before, but I'm typically feels a pretty constant push/pull between extroversion and introversion. It often plays out like this: When I have plans to do something with friends, I often wish I was just at home doing my own thing. If I'm home too long just doing my own thing, I often wish I had plans with friends. It's hard sometimes for me to decide what to do with an extra day off, e.g., certain federal holidays. So, I usually try to schedule just one thing with a friend and leave the rest of the day unstructured so that I can have the best of both worlds. A few weeks ago, I had a federal holiday off in which I met a friend for a leisurely breakfast, went to a doctor's appointment late morning, and then ran a few errands on a side of town I don't often frequent. Then I went home and made a pot of black bean soup before heading to the gym for a 6 o'clock group class. It was a near perfect day off.