I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles. I went through a divorce and my x threatened to take custody of my 2 sons. I was a stay at home mom, no money, no nothing. But I had determination! I called the local bar association and got a low income lawyer. The x backed down pretty quickly when he realized that he looked like a total jerk in the court room!

I got custody of the kids, now 20 and 22. Having more money doesn't make one a better parent. It sounds like your x never grew up - he still relies on his mommy for everything - thats not being a responsible parent! Your lawyer will make that known in court.

Good luck with it all. It seems never ending and very daunting but you will get through it! Many thoughts and prayers are with you,
Patty