When I started reading the thread my first taught was that you were describing my college and grad students. I have the same concers. As I read to the end of the thread I commend you for the self control in junk food and wanted to say the focus on social skills. I work with schools with kids with autism and the thing most likely to trip individuals with autos. Up later in life is the social piece not the academics. I believe this must be true for many of the learned without disabilities as well. The fact that you are already formatting a plan indicates that you are clearly a great teacher and an excellent problem solver. Please hang in there. We need more teachers like you.