I agree with the recommendation to get a fitting. I did everything I could to avoid wearing a bra when I was in college, but reality hit when I had to get a job and look professional. At the time a friend put it in perspective- bras suck, but if you can find one that is tolerable, it's worth the time to get a fitting. That was an epiphany, and I get fitted yearly... the time spent shopping is a small price to pay for a small amount of comfort. Bras still suck to wear, but they suck a lot less if it fits well!