I'm so sorry.

When I had to be off the bike for 6 months for a medical issue, I actually found that being on the forum, hearing about people cycling, etc., made me feel worse. So, for me, the idea of hosting a rest stop would not have been a positive thing. But that's me. Only you know what will work for you.

Have you exhausted options with medical professionals? In other words, have you gotten second, third, fourth opinions? I know you say your PT is awesome, but maybe just consulting with someone else, or a different orthopedist, might be helpful?