Susan-
Thank you for asking such a thoughtful question. One of the many reasons I support TE.
I would not take delivery of the goods. I personally would not want to be associated with Komen now - I might have considered buying them before this controversy (I didn't know what others did). In my opinion, when a vendor chooses to manufacture a good to support a charity, they run the risk of something like this happening. Perhaps there's another way you can make it up to them? Not sure what that would be - just thinking "out loud."
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