I know exactly how you feel. My daughter's wreck was serious enough that people didn't say that sort of thing...to my face. But I was terribly hurt by the anonymous comments on the news websites.

I am very quick to pull out the statistics of motor vehicle fatalities. Recently a local cyclist was injured very badly when hit by a van. That same week, Missouri highways saw 14 fatalities and every single one died in a motor vehicle. I believe there weren't even any motorcycles. They were all cars, trucks, SUVs. They ranged in age from 16 to 70. Almost half were under 24 years old.

Our metal cages aren't invincible.