At 210 lbs you will be fine with a good rim and 32 spokes.
Does your shop have a good wheelbuilder? If yes ask him for a quote, if not tell the shop to ask QBP to quote you a build for a set of DT Swiss.
You can make a very good budget wheelset from RR465 and 340 hubs. It will not be the lightest wheelset, but it will be totally fireproof. RR465 rims come in black or white. Use competition spokes for the build, they are practically indestructible.
Good luck!