I have a cartoon on my fridge that shows a tombstone and says on it "Never did meet 'the one' when she least expected it". It makes me laugh. And cry. But mostly laugh these days as I've long given up hope that there was someone out there for me. Not sure yet how I feel about the 'better to have loved and lost' concept. I have a couple friends that are still single too and never had any real loves in their lives. I had a few. But I've been very alone for a long time now and clearly that is how the rest of this life plays out.

Though reading here perhaps I should (1) go to limewave's bar (2) go back to HS or college or grad school or (3) start riding with actual people rather than all by myself all the time. hmmmmmm