I desperately miss sleeping with the cats. Henry is the best cuddler ever. When I got married, it was a contentious point with DH. I do, however, see his side, especially since Henry likes to lick paper and books of any kind to wake you up. So, I compromised. It was a hard transition. I "volunteered" to sleep with the kitten for about a month. I both loved and hated it, as she has a loud purr. Thankfully, DH otherwise adores the cats as much as I do. We are definitely crazy cat people.