Quote Originally Posted by Biciclista View Post
never heard of it. the operative word "she used to color her hair" says to me that she might not know what her natural color is... in her late 30's... many blondes and brunettes get darker colored hair as they age... until they go grey.
I find that hard to comprehend: not knowing one's own natural hair colour when one hasn't turned grey yet.

I guess for me, black hair is deeply to tied to my racial identity plus other natural features, as one of Asian descent. I know that black hair is on others naturally, but just the nature of the hair itself.

Ok, ok I know I will be challenged..in terms of one's self-identity when looking in the mirror.