I push back too. I went to a bike fitter and he had me put my feet/pedals at 3 o'clock and 9 o'clock and did a plumb line from my knee. It turns out I needed a setback seatpost to get my seat far back to have the right positioning. He said women tend to have long femurs and that it is pretty common.

I'd check fit. Your plum line from the knee is supposed to go to the middle of the pedal I think?

I honstly haven't even ridden my bike with my new seatpost that just came in. Not in the mood to brave the cold!!!