Hi all

Am sure this has been done a million times but can't find any threads!

I'm new to road biking and am really enjoying it. However, am really suffering with chaffed labia! (decided to just come right out and say it!)

I've bought some shorts off ebay but they were just cheap ones and man in bike shop has suggested that I invest in some decent ones.

So my question is:
A) is this a common problem? I'm guessing it is!
b) any recommendations for good shorts, brands?
c) shopman suggested cycling butter/vaseline on my bits before I ride - anyone tried this? does it work?

Any advice, experience would be very welcome.

(if it makes any difference, I'm riding 10/12 miles x 4 times a week on a road bike on a ladies gel saddle but still having problems!)