My friend in Iowa survived his 60-mile ride. He said that BF and I need to join him so we can help him if something goes wrong.

I've talked to BF about doing at some point--he said "And what gave you the impression that I wouldn't want you to come?" Oh, I don't know, the fact he didn't bother to ask? He's up for it--I just need to give him some notice so he has time to get in shape...