My hair is naturally a dishwater blond with reddish highlights. I just box dye it a medium golden blond to pull out the highlight color. Luckily that allows me to have the grays (they are a bit resistant) look like blond streaks. I started going gray at 19, I fear eventually I will have to embrace it or start seeing a hair dresser. At almost 29 I am not ready to let it take over, I am about 10-15% gray with more coming every year. My Dad has been salt and pepper gray all my life and my Mom's mother was a very earlier silver - I was doomed!