yeah, you are all right. I honestly didn't quite realize what was going on when we switched seats... then it was too late... I know: excuses. Well, I figured it was good to get to know the wives too... until they started talking about potty training

As far as being seen as a technician. I thought the MS would overcome that, but alas, it has not. In terms of the current company; I am sure they realize I judge them on their not - quite - ethical decisions. They keep me around for political reasons, and I'm grateful at the moment. As far as the new company - it is ethical *phew*, and they actually respect me as an expert of I wouldn't be there.

I think getting to the three other partners well is a good idea (two of them and I are already friends - I think the third is irritated to have to split the pot another way). I also think that as I become more comfortable with them, they may see me more as someone with whom to discuss business.

As to staying out of lab gossip: I totally feel you! I have been accused of being a bad team player due to trying to stay out of the gossip and the drama. It's funny (and comforting) that we have all had similar experiences.