michelle,
i dont think there's a problem at all, i think what you're going through is normal. i used to be wasted after my 30-40 mile saturday rides every other week. i mean wasted for the rest of the day.
now after a 60-miler i don't even need a nap.
i'm thinkin' it just takes time and miles to build up your endurance.
laurie
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