Quote Originally Posted by Biciclista View Post
but I am concerned about my job and i know that looking younger helps in this world.
Mimi - you make a very good point. 10 years ago, my life and my ambitions were VERY different and I would not have been able to do this. As much as I always admired beautiful silvery grey hair, I just couldn't even consider it on myself. Now, I figure that people will see me and either think "wow, she looks really good for 50-something" or "balsy girl - I couldn't go grey that young". I'm sure I'd feel differently if I was 50-something.


Two things have occurred to me today about this though:

1) In my mind, I'm still a brunette. Short hair is one thing (i've had it before) but the grey is not something I can feel or see unless I look in a mirror, so my own self-image hasn't changed yet.

2) I don't want to update my facebook page with a new photo. I don't want people whom I used to know and who don't see me day to day to see me grey. Why is that? Why do I care about them?