Autigirl, before going to your LBS for a fit, you can measure yourself up and input those quantities in this Fit Calculator. It will give you three bicycle frame settings. Check them with your current road bike. This way you can have some idea about what went wrong. Then check with what your LBS will say about your bike.

If your bike geometry is within the ranges of these three, then the problems may be others (for instance, riding positions etc).