Aicabsolut is an awesome resource!!! I now want a Zipp 343 wheelset... Not need, just want...but oh well.

Miranda what bike did you decide on?! I'm so thrilled you have something on order. Yeah!

I am also small/light and would recommend you get a good quality, basic, alloy wheelset - forget this blingy Mavic stuff or anything carbon. Pricier to fix and at our weight the bladed spokes and deep dish rims are just trouble. The more you spend the lighter the wheelset will be generally. I found an Easton EA90 SLX (1398 grams for the set) for about $500. The lighter weight helps with climbing and at our weight we can afford to run a feather weight wheelset without worrying a lot about it failing. They will be a great training/everyday wheelset. Save your $$ and buy really blingy wheels later! If you haven't already go check out the reviews on roadbikereview.com. Good info there. And remember, you and me aren't going to have the same issues of flex and maintenance on a light wheelset as a super aggressive big guy rider - so don't sweat their negative reviews.