I worry about my mom driving, and in all sorts of ways, about what I'm going to do as I get older. Driving is one thing I worry about; as a single woman, in a community with lousy public transportation and low property values, how will I get around? And if I can't get around, how would I ever get out into an area with better public transportation?

My Mom, though, I worry about driving, because she just doesn't seem to pay close attention. But then I wonder if I'm just being really judgmental because we have conflicts. I can't imagine she'd respond well if I tried to tell her not to drive, so I hope when/if the time comes, my brother will be part of the conversation.