Quote Originally Posted by Robyn Maislin
. I know that not everyone has a husband who really is an equal parent, but I was married to a real a****** before, and I swore that when I remarried, it would have to be to someone who was going to be an equal partner, or I would not have remarried. Everyone is different. But I feel good that both of my boys saw an example of an equal partnership and they see the contributions that we both made to their upbringing. Probably the best compliment that I have received was from my oldest son who told me that we were very good role models for a marriage.
Robyn - because some of us said we found it hard to exercise on a regular schedule does not mean our husbands were not equal parents/partners in raising our children. My husband is a pilot and Im afraid getting up to do feeds for me was not a possibility, one because I did Breast feed and two because flying an aircraft without enought sleep is dangerous for him and his crew never mind the people on the ground etc. Everyone finds what works for them when they have children and as we can see by this thread that may differ alot from family to family.