Ok, I don't think this is a TMI question after some of the postings I've seen on the board but I've been pondering this a while.I'm new to the saddle and am still trying to get past post-ride pain or discomfort in the labia,vagina area. I'm not in a relationship and extremely grateful for that right now considering my discomfort. With all the the talk I've seen about "tender, blistered, bumpy, chafed, cracked or sores in the nether regions", how do you all cope when the hubby or significant other is in the mood? Do you grin and bear it? Are you used to the pain?